The reason it scares me is because one side is getting exactly what they want, while the other is pretending in order to either be manipulative, or just dragged around (past tense hurts my head).

And as for 'I'm not looking for a boyfriend'... well, we can add another warning flag response to the list of easy letdowns. I don't think I've ever in my life been looking for a boyfriend... um... I mean girlfriend... yeah... but they seem to come along anyways. I don't pass it up when it looks good (and you know what I mean by "good"... I hate that I need to use disclaimers).

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Originally posted by CatKnight:
I just found out this really cool girl in my building I hang out with occasionally has a fuck buddy. This really pisses me off. Dunno why. Maybe it's partially because I'd rather do her. Maybe it's partially because I'd rather go out with her and do her. Jealousy sorta. I dunno. When my female friends tell me they have casual sex and such, it really makes me feel extremely depressed. I still havn't figured out exactly why.

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I know a couple of chics who are like this. Guess what happens when they eventually get a few fuck buddies...She gets preggy and has to live with her parents for another 18 years. I get this weird feeling when chics act like this think that they think they are a guy in a chics body -or- they are trying to be like a guy and just want sex. Trust me that chic will probably end up preggy in about a year. We used to make bets at my old job about chics doing this, especially when they have the little 4'8" ghetto wannabe fuck buddy. 8 times out of 10 they get preggy, the ghetto wannabe for some strange reason ends up going to jail, and they end up living with grandma and grandpa for about another 18 year and are trapped raising a kid. Not all the guys are ghetto wannabes Im just saying that think they magicall
because 80\% of the teenagers in my area think that all the sudden they have magically grown in the ghetto...

There are many ways you can handle this too. Everytime she says something about the dude tell her its fucking nasty and you dont want to hear it -or- if she mentions something he did get the attitude like "thats all he did to you??? thats weird" then she might give it up to you. But trust me its just another headache and not worth it. She will be toting a baby around within the next year.

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All that I know there was no God for me
Force that shatters all, absence of mortality

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AND THEN SHE GETS A BF 3 DAYS LATER! wtf is that?

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ya i know that happened to me like twice recently. once it was right before winter break, i hooked up with this girl friend of mine, who just broke up with her asshole b/f, but said she actually wanted to be single for a while. when i got back she had a b/f who goes to another school far away that she only sees like once a month. wtf?

and its cool silver, that you understand this weird feeling i have too.

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If you have multiple personalties and think about suicide is it a hostage situation???

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what do you mean vodka isnt an officially recognised AMD coolant

silver

you notice all those italics? i LOOOOVE italics. they show how i'm speakin'! ah well, no one cares.. time to sleep! *checks watch* SHIT! 4:30 AM (est)!!!

silver
(and yes, i know i put my name twice, but bite me! its fucking 4:30am..)