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Originally posted by Chrissy:
someone fill me in.

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Because women are wired very differently than men. We just don't, on a base level, operate the same way.

I'll agree that women can maintain these types of relationships, but I have to believe it's draining on them. I've just never met a woman who can go unaffected by being in that situation. There are exceptions, i'm sure... but when the woman isn't prepared for a Fuck Buddy relationship, and that's all the guy wants, somebody gets hurt... and that's usually the case.

hardly. a lot of energy can come from having really good sex, relationship or not. it's not like it's an effort to maintain a fuck buddy kind of thing, not at all. the effort comes in fending off everybody who feels the need to rant on and on that it's 'impossible' for a chick to have a great sex life without emotional hangups.

all in all though, it's a lot less draining to have a fuck buddy than it is to have a relationship. dealing with just sex is easy. dealing with sex *and* all the emotional load is work.

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