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well guys who sleep around have mental problems to some degree also. its called fear of intamacy. anyway, the difference between these two situations is that guys do it for physical pleasure, while girls do it for emotional pleasure (or lack there of)
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Well, I have something to say here.
Women with fuck buddies are women that usually have self-esteem problems or had problems early on in life (e.g. no father figure, parents were divorced, etc.) Basically, women like this have no self-respect. They can be cool and all, but they're usually the type of girl that blocks all the hurt by having sex (it makes them feel attractive and wanted), but once in a while, will break into tears for no reason and complain that their life is so hard.
Trust me, try not to get involved with these girls too much. If a girl like this is causing you to go crazy, find some more girls to talk to or hang out with. If you're smart, you'll try to make her jealous by hanging out with someone else....then she'll be eating out of your hand in a few months.

Anyways, I say stay friends with her, but expand your horizons a little bit. And I don't mean meeting more girls, meet some dudes to hang out with, because they might know someone that you can hook up with.

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hey yeah that was right on ytsejammer! she was just telling me about some of the stuff that happened to her (not in detail though). she is also the really cynical type (which i like, but she is even more extreme than I!)
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PostIcon Posted on: Apr. 25 2001,10:42 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
I can post on the issue of fuck buddies.

For about 6 years i had one. it was just one of those things. Great physical attraction but nothing else. We would get together every 3-6 months and have at it.

its not that we were looking for anything we just happened to light each others fire.

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Right on WG!

Thats the way it is with me and my friend. I dont want to be involved with him- there is too much stuff going on. And its not that I have poor self esteem or any of those "charateristics" so aptly described by ytsejammer. Im 22- Im going to law school in the fall- relationships and school work DONT MIX (believe me when I tell you that crying your eyes out at 3:00am when you have a midterm in the morning that you havent even cracked a book for yet is not a good thing).But i digress...
Fuck buddies allow you to release tension and not worry about a full on, involved relationship with a member of the opposite sex- in a lot of ways they are better- the hurt factor is lower and you always have someone to kiss and get nekkid for :P

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i don't get why there's this assumption that if a chick has a fuck buddy, or just flat out likes sex, that there has to be something wrong with her.

there are lots of chicks out there who are perfectly capable of having a real good time screwing a guy friend without getting all emotionally crazy. so then the guys they aren't screwing have to start saying they're slutty or have low self esteem? what gives?

i used to have a friend i'd hook up with from time to time. neither one of us was nuts, neither of us got all emotional about it. things were just fun, and then after a while both of our lives took another turn and we found relationships. the screwing days ended, he's still a friend, and i'm happy he's happy.

i can only speak for myself, but i've never been pregnant, my parents aren't divorced, and there was no 'unresolved hurt' that led to any of it. i'm sure that there are plenty of other chicks who can say the same, and probably some on this board.

maybe what we should be questioning is the need to find something wrong with any chick who lives her life outside the stereotypical gender role.

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PostIcon Posted on: Apr. 25 2001,14:19 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
I can't believe I'm going to do this---

I actually agree with you kuru.

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PostIcon Posted on: Apr. 25 2001,15:41 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
it's not so shocking is it?

chicks are often more mentally competent than they're given credit for. especially when it comes to sex.

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quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
For about 6 years i had one. it was just one of those things. Great physical attraction but nothing else. We would get together every 3-6 months and have at it.

Film any 70's porno's?
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