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Mhoraigh 
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Posted on: May 28 2002,09:20 |
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Ok, guys.........when you're actually inside is it just a thing of pumping until you're done or do you actually continue to pay attention to her and play while that's going on?
Girls, do you like guys to play or do you prefer just pumping away like it's a job (can you tell my preference from how I phrased that)?
I dunno, I've only been with one guy, but it really feels like it ought to be a little less mechanical once you get past the merely playing.....
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damien_s_lucifer
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Posted on: May 28 2002,11:11 |
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Quite possibly the best book ever written on this subject.
mechanical sex sucks. one girl I dated kept her eyes closed the entire time... she enjoyed it, but it made me feel like I was just an oil pump or something.
it's all about playing, laughing, talking, wrestling, whatever feels good, and you should be doing that the entire time... it shouldn't stop once you begin THE ACT, and it shouldn't stop even after you're through.
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kuru
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Posted on: May 28 2002,12:14 |
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If a guy is going to do his best impersonation of a jackhammer, I am gonna throw him out of bed.
I've only had to do that once. So the majority of guys that I've slept with apparently aren't into the 'mechanical' sex thing. Some of them even talked geeky during sex, and that was really cool.
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Wiley
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Posted on: May 28 2002,15:47 |
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I just go in and out at 3/4 of a second intervals. A nice steady rate. I try and stay as stiff as possible to make sure every thrust feels the same. And I don't do any foreplay as that would cut into my mechanical pumping time.
Seriously though, it sounds like your dude just sucks. Were you his first as well? Two virgins going at it for the first time is like trying to learn to swin in a hot tub. Usually after the first stroke you're at the end ...at least the guy is. You gotta be vocal, tell the guy what you want. I hate it when girls won't tell me what they're into, makes it seem like they don't even care to be there. When that happens I usually just pay them their money and leave.
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kuru
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Posted on: May 28 2002,16:29 |
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| Quote | Wiley said:
I just go in and out at 3/4 of a second intervals. A nice steady rate. I try and stay as stiff as possible to make sure every thrust feels the same. And I don't do any foreplay as that would cut into my mechanical pumping time. |
If a guy did that to me, I'd toss his ass out of the room and handle things myself.
Course your next paragraph contradicts that entirely, since you say you want the chick to tell you what she wants.
But that whole 'pump like a metronome' thing is about as exciting as dental work.
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Wolfguard
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Posted on: May 28 2002,16:46 |
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A slight study of anatomy does help you out with knowing what works and why. I just pay attention to what im doing and how it is working for her.
I always make sure that she wants to come back for another ride 
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Wiley
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Posted on: May 28 2002,17:38 |
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| Quote (kuru @ 28 May 2002,08:29) | | Course your next paragraph contradicts that entirely, since you say you want the chick to tell you what she wants. |
The first paragraph was kinda sarcastic because the entire question asked in this thread is just stupid ...everybody who is worth their salt in the sack knows that machanicaly pumping away is just not the way to get the job done. You gotta get creative ...keep changing it up.
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kuru
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Posted on: May 28 2002,17:45 |
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Your sarcasm got by the radar because having met one guy who actually DID believe in that philosophy, I'm susceptible to believing there are others.
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The_Stomper
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Posted on: May 28 2002,18:13 |
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For the good of all women; and all men too; I certainly hope you executed him on the spot. Guys like that give the rest of us a bad reputation, and of course they give the girl a bad time. 
Dammit ... DSL beat me to linking to that book. Seriously though folks ... buy a copy and read it. Know it. Use it. Your wife/girlfriend (or in Wiley's case, prostitute - couldn't resist  ) will thank you greatly.
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Necromancer
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Posted on: May 28 2002,18:27 |
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just remember people the key to butt sex is the withdrawl NOT the insertion.
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