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Beldurin 
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Posted on: May 28 2002,18:58 |
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A lot of it depends on the woman. I remember two especially that, when they got close, that's what they wanted: a steady, unchanging rhythm. However, up to that point, anything went. I generally try to focus on what makes her feel good, it makes me feel good because I'm pleasing her, and it also helps to delay the inevitable a little while, thus prolonging the fun time. 
Edit: Necro, I thought the key to butt sex was lubrication?
Edited by Beldurin on Jan. 01 1970,01:00
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WillyPete
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Posted on: May 28 2002,19:14 |
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Call me weird and psychoanalyse all you want about feeling the need to impress others due to lack of confidence (it's been done), but I really get off when SHE gets off. I've gone some sessions without climaxing jsut for the sheer pleasure of watching her have one. (Mind you I get my own back later...)
The biggest turn on is when the girl just does what she wants and tells me too. Not that I need instruction. My partners (the few I've had) have always thought I'd slept around a lot to know what I do. It's just down to knowing what's where and how to do it.
A bad hand job from a girl will let you know what it's like for them when you don't know what you 're doing. To be honest, the best research aource is your sisters/mom's Cosmo.
It's not a wrestling match, it's not a bingo list of positions (remember, in porn, they do the different styles in different takes), it's not about forcing her to gag by throwing your tongue down her throat, and the nipples aren't radio dials for you to find a rock station with.
My best reasoning is that I treat it like my ice cream - I eat good ice cream with a teaspoon just so the good stuff lasts longer. I take my time.
Anyway, why did you ask Moraigh? You need us to have a chat with your guy?
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Mhoraigh
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Posted on: May 29 2002,22:28 |
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Well, I'm not with him any more....I was just curious since he's the only partner I've been with...well...past the playing.
I suspect he's much better at it and was just trying to go slow with me or something, thanks to my fear factor - he's a good guy and I'll give him the benefit of the doubt..... I just wanted an outside view.
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demonk
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Posted on: May 29 2002,22:45 |
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Speaking of fear, I've been trying to understand why most girls are afraid of their first time. Is it because of the pain? Or is it a fear of how society will view you after the act? For the guys, we don't have the pain or the social stigma that goes with it. We are afraid of other things such as her getting pregnant or us getting an STD. Just another random thought.
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CatKnight
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Posted on: May 29 2002,23:05 |
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my girl is extremely ticklish. so what i do is during sex i will tickle her, because then she has to decide whether to squirm away or keep fucking 
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demonk
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Posted on: May 29 2002,23:10 |
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Heh, I like your style CK.
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kuru
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Posted on: May 29 2002,23:11 |
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| Quote | | Speaking of fear, I've been trying to understand why most girls are afraid of their first time. Is it because of the pain? Or is it a fear of how society will view you after the act? |
I have no idea, cause I was never faced with either of those. I wasn't afraid it would hurt (and it didn't....in fact I mauled the guy. He got no sleep. I did him 7 times that night and went for 8 and 9 in the morning.) and social stigma has not really ever been a concern of mine.
WTF would I care if people are going to think less of me for engaging in a natural, satisfying act?
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Mhoraigh
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Posted on: May 29 2002,23:46 |
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Fear = pain, letting myself go, STDs (including pregancy), attachment, becoming like multiple friends who went psycho-slut when they lost their virginity.
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"Captain Loob he taught me all about the ocean
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To me what's a good life mean
I'm a pirate, that's all I'll ever be."
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demonk
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Posted on: May 30 2002,00:52 |
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so, other than the STDs (including pregnancy), basicly girls are afraid of themselves. Ok, that helps me understand females a bit better. Thanks.
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Wiley
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Posted on: May 30 2002,01:14 |
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| Quote (The_Stomper @ 28 May 2002,10:13) | | Use it. Your wife/girlfriend (or in Wiley's case, prostitute ) |
They like to be called Escorts
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