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Proteun 
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Curses indeed. Long distance relationships are way to taxing to be worth it. The night that me and my girlfriend agreed to become exclusive was the night before she went on a famy vacation for a week, so i was doomed talking to the girl i newly loved on the phone, rather than in person. and even though I new she would be back, it was still a pain. Be sure to keep it local, always local.Now, i don't know if this ever works, but perhaps you've been too easy for her, there's nothing for her to desire. I know a girl that said that, she fell crazy for a guy then she said that she was going to play hard to get. I think that's the most rediculous idea, hard to get Bah!. But maybe it works for some people, maybe it would work for you. But if you try it, and it backfires, don't kill me ok? ------------------
Like a flash I'm out-
-Proteun
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Octavian
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i really shouldn't be giving advice on relationships, considering i have had very bad luck in ever starting one. but i have helped friends through some very interesting ones, and i can usually fix things if i know both parties well. i don't know you, but here goes:make your decision. let's assume you are gonzo-nuts about here and decide to confront her about it. best case scenario is that she says yes and you two live happily ever after. if she gives the same bs again (i've never met someone who can't make time for someone they really like), cool it off and probably stay away for a little while. make contact once in a while, but nothing overboard. whatever you do, don't just stay around her and talk to her all the time and be with her just to hear her voice. it only makes things worse, trust me on this one. come back after a time and maybe try again. if she doesn't want it, don't force it on her. or, you can decide that she's really not worth it and that there's a lot of other fish in the sea. i mean christ, man, you're sixteen. you'll dig another chick just as much in another couple of months. and if you decide not to go for it, for god's sake stay away from flirting on the phone. that's the absolute worst thing you can do (again, i know from experience, too many times. . .). it'll be hard (no pun intended), try to switch subjects. i've completely broken it off with girls like that, and i consider myself a much better and mentally healthier person for it. it'll hurt, but it will hurt a lot more if you drag it out knowing you can't have her. that's my opinion, not worth much, but here to be ignored nonetheless.
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Nero
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rejected!? wtf? if she's starting to come around, what in the hell happened to cause that? kayy, i now have infinitely more respect for england. that was the most rational thing i've heard in ages. though i wonder about the passionate kiss thing... hey, i'll just have to try it some day. i've broken off several (serious) relationships and had several broken off. i think i'm one in the positive if positive means i'm the asshole, though that probably isn't something to be proud of. my advice is that if you break it off, break it off. don't even think about calling/e-mailing her. if she comes back once, be nice about it. if she comes back twice, consider whether she's just pathetic or if there was something there. i've never had one come back twice. if she leaves you, find out real quick like what you're willing to do to get her back. if it's not much, it wasn't meant to be. if it's a lot (never been there yet, either) do what you gotta do. i.e. ask kayy. now go listen (download from napster, whatever...) to the rolling stones' "time is on my side" or watch fallen.
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Kayy
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Posted on: Jun. 08 2000,12:41 |
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quote:
Originally posted by Nero:
kayy, i now have infinitely more respect for england.
if it's a lot (never been there yet, either) do what you gotta do. i.e. ask kayy.
You mean to say you had little respect for it before? damn, I thought everybody loved england... heh And that other line, heh, at least ya got confidence to point ppl in my direction  ----- Slate... d00d.. total bummer, sorry things didnt work out for you man, I just hope it wasnt my fault.. advice is a good thing to ask for, but it's not often the best thing to take if you know what I mean (like medicine really). Basically, if you're in that situation (totally screwed) then I suggest you wallow in depression and self pity for a few days, then have a few beers (I dont condone underage drinking, even though I've done it myself for long enough) and then snap yerself out of it and go get some kid! ------------------
When darkness calls and the pain and suffering begin again, you can guarantee that I shall be the instigator.
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Kevin "Kayy" Beadle, The Proprietor and Innovator of Kayyos-Vx WebDesigns.
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