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Kayy 
DetVet
Group: Members
Posts: 108
Joined: May 2000
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Posted on: Jun. 03 2000,13:49 |
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Slate man, bummer, sorry it didnt work out this time round.. but then theres always tomorrow, right?Who knows, she may change her mind about it after thinking about what you said... It happens, really. ---- Cyrino, like I said, I been around in the game for longer than I care to remember, I've been beaten up by jealous ex's, rejected, hit (by men and women, mainly men stickin up for women), been attacked with weapons (of all kinds but guns), been picked up then put down for one of my friends (common where I live), and its happened sooo many times.. And still I come out smiling asking for more. I may not be the most good-looking guy, but when it comes to the one on one boy-girl/man-woman situation, I got a lot of experience in talking to people and more often than not raising a smile if not something more. And as you can see from what I posted for Slate, I aint afraid to help a guy or a girl out when its asked for or I think its needed. ---- I just hope that Slate keeps his head up and stays friends with the girl, 'cause there aint one thing worse in the world than losing a damn good friend over something like this.. it hurts, I been through it. Keep smiling man, at least you're friends right? who knows what the girl may think tomorrow, or next week, just dont pressure her into something she doesnt feel happy with, you've said your piece, she knows exactly how you feel, if she comes round to that then you'll be feelin like a million big ones. Live in hope, its all there is left in this world ------------------
When darkness calls and the pain and suffering begin again, you can guarantee that I shall be the instigator.
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Kevin "Kayy" Beadle, The Proprietor and Innovator of Kayyos-Vx WebDesigns.
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incubus
mack daddy
Group: Admins
Posts: 1316
Joined: May 2000
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Yeah, to the guy who got dumped ... I can offer my advice, take it or leave it. I've been around, loved and lost, got back, lost again, you name it. Not quite up to the Errol-Flynnesqueness of Kayy  but as most of my friends are women you get the jist of the way they think.If the woman is dropping you on that basis (she doesn't have time for you) then make damn sure you play it right. The usual woman who will say something like that will want you on a string, no commitments, having her cake and eating it. I been there too  The question really is, do you want her back or not? If you don't, then you are ok - play it easy, you'll have a good time. If you want her back, that's another thing entirely... ...there's the long-distance approach, where you can just look independant and likeable, generally be on your best behaviour around her (usually being the perfect gentleman in her prescence helps a lot) and I think you have a good chance of her realising what she's missing and warming to you. But then again ... ...theres the get-her-back-as-soon-as-possible approach. If she can't be bothered and she's taking you for granted, that being the reason for ending it, then it's pretty easy. Make her jealous. There are many ways to do this. Do you have any attractive female friends you are close to? I luckily do ... and a good thing to do is invite said friend and target out to a club, or whatever. Be charming, witty, and genuinely funny, don't actually do anything with said friend, but be slightly more warm towards them than to the target. If you are getting hints at offers, make sure you politely refuse. The next time you see the target theres a very big chance she'll be envious as fuck, and want you back. Anyway, im not sleazy, its just human nature we're talking about here - and its not nice to be on the receiving end of a dumping  Good luck mate! Mike ------------------
-- incubus
As I chase the leaves like the words I never find ...
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