the whole point of that 'it wasn't an offer' thing was that 'i don't sleep around.' that's all. and thanks for realizing that concern doesn't have to mean paranoia.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

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Originally posted by PersonGuy:
Why don't you just kill yourself? Then you won't have ANYTHING to worry about.

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PersonGuy, that has to be the stupidest fucking thing I've heard anyone say on this forum.

I knew my post would be taken completely wrong, which is fine.

Me saying I wouldn't have sex with kuru wasn't supposed to be taken literally.

It was intended to be based ONLY on the comments I've read from her. Not the person herself.

At any rate I've already apologized to kuru offline, and explained in further detail to her what I was trying to get across. Unfortunately after every sentence she immediately assumes I'm talking about her. No matter how many times I say I'm not talking about her personally.

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jim
Beauty is in the eye of the Beer Holder
Brews and Cues

[This message has been edited by jim (edited September 16, 2000).]

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Originally posted by jim:
I knew my post would be taken completely wrong, which is fine.

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wow, this just blows my mind. you KNOW that you'll sound like the idiot you are, and yet you post it anyway... ok... something that i personally wouldn't do, but...

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Originally posted by jim:
It was intended to be based ONLY on the comments I've read from her. Not the person herself.

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so, you're saying that you'll comment on -=and rip someone apart for=- something that you've based solely on the comments you've read from that person? now, that's the stupidest fucking thing i've ever heard...
while i don't condone personguy's thoughts that you should kill yourself, as i am against ANYONE killing themsleves, i think that maybe, just maybe, you should try using that mass of cells between your ears before posting next time.

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brodie
Now every face looks familiar
Then every face would melt away until now
Everyone, do you know?
I know your deception

[This message has been edited by brodie (edited September 16, 2000).]

[This message has been edited by brodie (edited September 16, 2000).]

First of all, I wasn't defending kuru. I wrote the second paragraph RIGHT after reala's, and by the time I submitted it kuru had gotten hers in. So I edited to make a small comment to her. The second paragraph had NO relation to the first.
Second of all, I wasn't trying to convince anyone to kill them selves, I was explaining how impossible it is to protect yourself from ALL harm. With jim saying he wouldn't take a 1 in 1000 risk (now that he's older) I think that applies to alot more than sex. You might crash... can't drive. You might get hit... can't walk. You might get an infection... can't eat. It comes to the point where you HAVE to make a choice. Kill youself and then you lower all risks to ZERO. Or stop being so damn protective of yourself!! People who are too carful are a little self centered. Not only is *makes monkey face and moves hands alternately forward and back with open palms* everyone out to get yyyyyyyoooooooouuuuuuu, but yyyyyyyyooooooouuuuuuurrrrrrr soooooooooooooooo impooooooooooooortant that yyyyyyyooooooooouuuuuuuuuu need to be sheilded from eeeeeeeeeeevery thing eeeeeeeeeeeevery seeeeeeeecond.

If all you want to do in life is stop yourself from dieing, then I got news for ya... you've ALREADY failed! Do something significant with your life other than perserving yourself OR stopping breathing everyone else's air!

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brodie

Now every face, it looks familiar...
then every face would melt away until now...
everyone, do you know, I know your deception?
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My question is: how likely is it to get HIV or an STD from going down on her?? She seemed healthy enough, but ya never know..

*also one of the times we were fooling around she was having her period or around that time or something cuz when we were done i noticed some blood. I was kinda grossed out but didn't let on that i saw it or nothing.
Could that increase the risk??

thanks for your support :]

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aventari
"A witty saying proves nothing." --Voltaire

Kuru : Don't take it to heart, he's great too.

Anyone else : leave them to it, in fact dont even do that, its sorted :P

To do with the forum :

The way I see it I'm almost with Kuru on this one. While I'll always use a condom I will only (and have only) slept with either my partner or very close friends at the time. Going down on a girl I tend to reserve for my partner tho', not sure why, cos I love it so much, it's really nice seeing your loved one go through being on the receiving end of it. Half the fun!

I don't sleep around, maybe I don't get much of a chance (as im uggerleee) but when I have had offers I've refused them, I always play it safe (tho' I've made a couple of mistakes, I'm only human), I think that I'm doing things fairly responsibly, if I get HIV through these procedures then well it's tough shit. Comparitively, I could get cancer tomorrow, I use a mobile phone. Those are the breaks.

We live in a world full of risks, we have to learn to draw the line and prepare to make some sacrifices, otherwise life is drab and grey.

Look after each other, and there's no problems.

Mike

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-- incubus
As I chase the leaves like the words I never find ...

Now don't get me wrong, Sex is very, VERY necessary, in my mind at least. I only feel that there are very simple things I can do, that really don't effect the over all pleasure of sex that will HELP prevent me from contracting any disease.

I've been unfortunate enough to stare death in the eyes twice in a life time already, and lived to tell about it. (which I'd glady do if ya want!)

Ok, I have more to type, but I'm to lazy. Feed on this for a while, and then if necessary, I'll type out the rest of my analogies...

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jim
Beauty is in the eye of the Beer Holder
Brews and Cues

hopefully we can go back to having fun on this forum and back to the topic of the discussion, which if i remember right was safe sex.

i practice safe sex, except for using condoms during oral. yeah, i know, bad me, but latex tastes HORRID, and nonoxynol-9 is even worse. i don't figure it as too huge of a risk, since the only people i ever get physical with are those i'm either in a relationship with, or are very close friends. as to what i was saying about outright paranoia, i meant the people who won't even eat in a restaurant because there 'might be hiv on the fork.'

i've been almost killed, nearly dead, or thought to be dying six times in my life. in the last 8 years, i've put 14 boxes in the ground containing friends and family.. please don't feel sorry for me. this has taught me only that life is limited and you never know when your turn to clock out is. i could live my life obsessively carefully, and get hit by a bus tomorrow. i could live recklessly and live to be a hundred. i'd prefer to live happily in the middle of those two and let nature do what nature does.

i advocate practicing safe sex... and please do be concerned about hiv, std's, and pregnancy. also remember it's not necessary to worry yourself into an ulcer.

merry meet, merry part, and merry meet again

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa