chicks know what they want. if you wanna find out, ASK THEM.settling for 'i dunno, whatdya you want?' isn't a good idea. a chick who's complacent isn't a good team up for a guy who has goals. vice versa is true too.
it's all sparks for a while, but then it dies out. fire needs *fuel* to live on, and it takes effort to keep it going. it's great to find your comfortable groove with someone, but you still have to throw in the spice every now and again.
try new stuff. instead of sitting around on a sunday afternoon, or goin to the mall, or seeing yet another movie.... jump out of a plane.
go skiing. find a public pool, or even some lake somewhere, and go swimming. do things you've never done before, or find new ways to do the same things. re-visit your childhood and go roller-skating (for those of us children of the 70s and 80s).
the point is, it takes work to keep things fresh and vital. it's hard to lose interest if you're always doin something new and exciting.
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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost
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