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Yeah, the two classes is dead on. Right now I'm stuck in Mode 2, and seeing all the other suckers getting nasty isn't helping one bit. Especially the idiots. Oh well.
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There's one thing that I've noticed that might shed some light on how guys (and girls for that matter) think. Society basically tells boys from an early age that they should always want sex, and that they should always be trying to score with the hottest woman they can find. Most girls are told that all guys want is sex, and that their worth is proportional to their physically apperence. Now, none of these messages where flat out said to their face, but if you look at TV, books, and movies throught the past few decades, it's pretty easy to see this message. The problem with most of the people around you is that not only do they buy into this ass-backwards subconciously, but they also believe it conciously. And they figure that since all the people around the also think this way that it must be true. But as history (and current events) has showed us, just because a large percentage of the people around you believe something doesn't mean that it is the correct or even ethical thing to think/do. Most of the people around you will go off to college or another city and find out that most of the mature people in the world don't think the way they do. Then they will be forced to take a real look at what they believe, and then they will come to the same state of mind that you and most of the people on this board has come to: Looks are only secondary. Just relax, take pitty on the poor, uneducated fools, and take solic konwning that you will probably be one of the few, truely happy people in life because you will be with someone who you truely care about and who truely cares about you. Just ask yourself, what would you rather have: Just a pretty face who doesn't truelly give a fuck about you, or someone who may not be able to be a model, but turely cares about you for you? Quantity or Quality?

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 08 2001,10:44 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
no bullshit: guys & girls will generally end up having the most stable relationships with people that are of the same attractiveness that doesnt mean they wont try and have relationships with more attactive people but that is more based around a sexual thing. you might see guys going for gurls who are blonde bimbos but i can bet you they wont be able to have a proper stable relationship with them.

i've seen pics of you liney and i know for a fact that you dont need to lose 20ilbs or try and change your "lifestyle" cos you look great the way you are and i know for a fact that your probably way out of my league so i dont try and "hit on you". you dont need to change anything about yourslef unless YOU think you need to not if someone else does as it wont make any difference to a guy who you can actually form a proper relationship with

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 08 2001,10:55 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Just goes to show you. You get what you expect. They all look at it that way and thats how it will be for them. Everyone is different and is looking for different things in the opposite sex. Some people actually look for quality in person, some havent had sex in a week and need it or they will die. You just have to keep looking, not everyone is the same. It sounds like they all acted like that toward your response because they would rather conform to what everyone else was saying instead of thinking for themselves, i.e. Monkey see, Monkey do.

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 08 2001,13:39 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Legally Blonde was a *cute* movie but it also pissed me off enormously.

Being a law student (and anyone who has seen this movie and taken the LSAT or been in law school for more than 5 minutes knows this) IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO GO FROM A 143 LSAT score to a 179 in two weeks....IMPOSSIBLE I tell you. There was no realisim in that movie what so ever, you just had to take it with a grain of salt. It was what I call a complete bubblegum movie...total fluff nothing more.
As far as your real inquiry is concerned. In time guys wise up and realise that looks only last for a short period of time and that in the end the thing that will matter is the person they can have a conversation with for the rest of their lives, if that person happens to be beautiful bonus....but I would venture to say that a man will find you beautiful if he finds you as a whole person beautiful...dont you feel the same way about guys... I would say you probably do...
its like that old Gershwin song... Someone to watch over me...the lyric goes
He may not be the man some girls think of as handsome but to my heart he carries the key.
I would say a pretty safe bet is guys think pretty much the same way.

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 08 2001,13:56 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
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...a man will find you beautiful if he finds you as a whole person beautiful...

That's been my experience. The people I would describe as beautiful (instead of just "pretty" or "hot) have great character and are good people as a whole.

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I just want a girl who understands me and doesn't care that i don't do "male" things like play sports, drink to excess, etc. I am a sensative person and i can not even ask girls out becasue i can't take the rejecion, i think i would cry.

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I just want a girl who understands me and doesn't care that i don't do "male" things like play sports, drink to excess, etc. I am a sensative person and i can not even ask girls out becasue i can't take the rejecion, i think i would cry.

You can always have friends help you out. I had a friend dating this chic and he introduced me to her friend. Hot as hell, we dated for about 9 month(he broke up with his girl after a few) and that was some of the best booty ive ever had.

Dont take rejection too hard, sure it sucks but remember this. If you ask them out and they say no at least you can move on to someone who will actually date you. At least you arent wondering if they would ever say yes or no.

We had a few parties over at my place and this one chic kept stepping on my back everytime she went to get something and we talked alot alone out on the balcony. I figured maybe she might want to start dating a little. Well I got word from my roommate that she wasnt interested. So know I know to move on to the next booty.

More and more I notice women arent as picky as they used to be so you never know...and dont think a girl is too hot to go out with you. No chic is too hot.

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 12 2001,18:26 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
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...be a total mystery.

Ugh! Please don't do that. I hate it when women act like they're this huge enigma. *groan*

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LiNeY, just be yourself.. you don't need to change anything i'm sure, i don't know you, but i'm sure... eventually mr. right will come along... as for mr. right now, take a look at some of the guys you havne't been considering... but if you're like me, i don't settle for second best.

the two classes are fairly accurate.. but the notion of girls having to be incredibly attractive isn't a one way street.. guys have to overcome that same obstacle... i mean, i'm certainly not ugly, but it seems that the level of women i'm after don't take to the level of attractive ness i am. the world is shallow, and as wierd as it is to admit it, i wish i was in that world. </shallow babble>

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