The way I see it is,If I'm having sex with someone, they're either my g/f or a very close female friend. Either way, in the first case it's classed as a relationship. If yo gonna be getting jiggy you have to not keep your mouth shut (oo-er) and actually find out what the other person likes.
Are you saying that you expect girls to give you head and you not give it them back?
When I'm in a relationship I take time out to see what they like. I don't expect but I'm a little dissapointed if women don't do the same ... one-sided relationships suck.
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