And the 24 y/o who was some dude's WIFE was cool at first, but in the end she turned out to be a real bitch. So I don't feel the need to lie and say "really cool 24 y/o" when I don't think she's cool.

Drugs DO rule. I meant what I said.

And consider the possibility that I was trying to give evil_monkey some hope. My writing reflected that.

And somehow I think you have a very different notion of "maturity" than I do.

reminds me a lot of the guy at the bar who calls the girl who won't go home with him a 'dyke.' if she wants something different than you, insult her. mature move there.

you've figured me all kinds of wrong, damien. especially since you have to label me domineering and shallow simply for disagreeing with you. yeah, we do have different definitions of maturity... but that's the only thing you got right. i don't want a pussy-whipped slave, no matter how much you try to paint it that way.

------------------
kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

quote:

---

Originally posted by kuru:
damien, you don't know the first thing about what i want.

---

And you don't know the first thing about me either, and you are busy speculating on whether or not I am a "nice guy."

quote:

---

reminds me a lot of the guy at the bar who calls the girl who won't go home with him a 'dyke.' if she wants something different than you, insult her. mature move there.

---

That guy is an idiot, but he sure as hell ain't me. I'm the guy who grins when that motherfucker gets the slap he so richly deserves. Quite frankly us "nice guys" let the assholes have far too much power because we don't speak up when we should.

quote:

---

you've figured me all kinds of wrong, damien. especially since you have to label me domineering and shallow simply for disagreeing with you.

---

er, reading back thru my posts I don't see where I used either of those labels. I also don't see where I made any comment on what I thought your maturity level was, or whether or not you act differently around some guy you want to bang you, or anything like that.

I did use you as an example of something that evil_monkey should look out for. There are plenty of women out there who will try and tell him he's an asshole if he ever dares to stick up for himself, or relishes the good things in life. Maybe in real life you're different than the way you come of in your posts, but quite frankly you are AWFULLY critical.

Then again, if you weren't I wouldn't have anyone to argue with. Arguing kicks ass. So I guess I like you. Sort of.

are you looking for someone to love on this BB? If not, then who gives a shit what people say...take a chill pill.

regards, reman

------------------
People ask me to fix their computer. I do in 5 seconds.
They say "You think your good don't you".
I say "I know I'm good". People always ask stupid questions.

quote:

---

Originally posted by Evil_Monkey:
I'm just lonely and tired of it.

---

evil_monkey, being loney sucks. I feel for you, bro. BUT- and this is VERY VERY IMPORTANT- don't let being lonely rule your life. It's very easy to get trapped into a bad relationship that you're afraid to leave because you're afraid of being lonely. Being single is FAR superior to being in a relationship with someone who spends a good deal of their time pointing out all your flaws and saying "if you loved me, you'd (insert ridiculous demand here.)"

You seem like a genuinely good guy, so you probably won't always going to see how downright mean some women are because you're going to be looking for the good things in them. There are good things in everyone, but in some people the bad far outweighs the good.

This is the voice of experience talking... no, Kuru, I ain't talking about you.

as far as things go, damien, i don't know you any better than you know me. and i wouldn't have taken so much issue with you if it hadn't been for bein told what i want.

i'm not lookin for love here... i'm not lookin for love at all. it's been my experience that love finds you when the time is right.

------------------
kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

dude, and that looking younger than you are is a pain in the ass until you start actually getting older and then it becomes a compliment.

i think maybe it's all that emphasis on being youthful that now any time i get carded it's like an ego boost.

------------------
kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

Shit, I'm 21...I tell ya, after turning 21, everything sucks. All the benefits of growing up are lost, and now I'm starting to feel old. When I go to Vegas, I actually hope I get carded...it makes me feel cool again.