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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 10 2000,20:13  Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Ok so i went out last friday night with a girl from taekido and she introduced me to her 2 friends. To cut a long story short, we were all drunk and i ended up getting on to her friend in the club, outside, and in the car. Was the first time id ever kissed a girl let alone had my hands on certain things (im 18 btw, it doesnt bother me)
The thing is im REALLY shy, when i met her before i was plastered i hardly talked, she bought me a drink which was real nice and i bought her and her friends one etc etc
So i got her number and she got mine, but i got the flu and now ive lost my voice and cant talk hehaha! but i rang her and she knows im sick so im not avoiding her, and i asked her out sumtime and she said yeah why the hell not

all im worried bout now is that when i see her again i wont be drunk and she wont either and she'll be like omg what have i done and ill feel like a fool cus i really like her now

i felt like a fool on the fone cus i said i hope i didnt goto far on friday night and she said nah she's done it plenty of times with guys who did more so im like thinking, shit i just made a complete idiot of myself cus i aint never done anything like that before

ok ill shut up now.. just gimme advice please!!!!!! i need it!

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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 10 2000,21:44 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Just fuck it and be yourself. If you are really planning on hooking up and being with her for a while being yourself will be the best route to take. Ive taken that route everytime and its been awesome. Dont worry about impressing her, if she gets to know you for you then im sure things will work out. Dont be like these idiots that think if they act ghetto they get all the women. Most of the time all they end up getting is some 13y/o and end up with a ghetto baby.
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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 10 2000,22:07 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
sounds like she likes you already, or she wouldn't still be talkin to you on the phone and agree to see you again. be yourself, hang out with her, talk to her, and let nature take its course.

i'm a 22 y/o chick, i've been with some guys who had very limited experience, and it didn't bother me at all. as long as they're honest and don't try to put on an act, it's all good

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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 11 2000,02:12 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
WOW! This sounds like 2 problems that I've had.

1) I feel like an idiot if I try to dance while sober (but I'll never know if I LOOK like one with the edge taken off).

2) I never had a chance to take the edge of with a chick, so I've always been nervous and weird and stuff.

Anyway, I don't have much advice. BUT, you have to remember, that a drunk YOU is sometimes closer to what you REALLY feel, minus all the good judgement stuff (SOMETIMES!!!). Definately be yourself, but sometimes "yourself" isn't what you ACT like day to day. My point is... just let it flow... let it flow... breath in... breath out... ahhhhhhhh... go with the flow man.

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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 24 2000,02:17 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
OK, that topic could be taken two ways:
i assume you mean what should you do socially so that's what i'll answer.
1) BE HONEST. say that you are attracted to her and that you would like to continue the relationship. It sounds like she's into you as well.
2) don't get too macho. Most girls don't like it when you talk about mad (imaginied) skillz.
3) if you do succeed in getting her nekkid, remember ONE THING: GO SLOWLY!!! Especially the first time, foreplay is god! Who cares if it takes two hours, she'll thank you for it and you'll get more action later in the relationship. Oh and one thing, when you do "it", start anywhere but between her legs. Caress everywhere else first, then start there.

most of all: Be Yourself and RELAX!!

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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 24 2000,14:12 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
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Originally posted by THECybertron:
most of all: Be Yourself and RELAX!!

That right there is the BEST and ONLY advice you need. Being nervous is natural.

I've been around the block several times (I'm 25) and I still get nervous meeting people for the first or second time.

But after you get together, 5 minutes later it'll all be gone and everything will just go naturally.

Oh, that naturally, is VERY important. Don't try to impress people, just be yourself. I swear to GOD it works everytime.

People who go out of there way trying to be funny, or sexy, or anything... Will end up feeling like a fool.

Ok, I think you have enough to go on. Just know that EVERYONE goes through these same feelings, whether it's their 1st or 500th time in the same situation.

Good Luck!

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PostIcon Posted on: Sep. 24 2000,22:32 Skip to the previous post in this topic.  Ignore posts   QUOTE
Hey !

Be yourself hon! Girls like that sorta kinda thing trust me Everything will work out in the end

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