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CycleLady 
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Posted on: May 21 2002,21:20 |
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| Quote (demonk @ 21 May 2002,14:15) | | Every woman gets a chance to prove she isn't a bitch. If she can't, then the default view of her as a bitch stands. |
Soooo... I take it your view, demonk, is a vote for guilty until proven innocent.
What are the characteristics of a female who is not a "bitch?"
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demonk
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Posted on: May 21 2002,21:40 |
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I was only joking. I do view most women as being nice people by default. There are a few that you can just look at and they scream "Stuck up, self absorbed bitch", but those are few and easy to spot.
Basicly, what makes a woman a non-bitch is the same things that makes anyone a good person. She needs to be able to see beyond just her needs and wants to see how her actions are/could effect other people's lives. That's the biggest one. Then being honest, both with herself and others, also helps. Of course, she has to be able to give and recieve complements/gifts/quality time without a bunch of emotional hang ups. Not everyone can be Mother Terasa, but that is no excuss for not trying to be a nice person who loves herself and can care about others.
If you can't tell, I just got burned by a woman. She was my gf for almost 4 years, and just recently cheated on me and then left me. Of course, hindsight has perfect vision and I can now see that she isn't capable of being in a healthy relationship (of course, I had my own problems but I'm dealing with those and will be a much better person/partner). I'll just leave it at that so as not to degenerate into a bitching session about my ex.
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CycleLady
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Posted on: May 21 2002,21:50 |
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| Quote (demonk @ 21 May 2002,15:40) | | If you can't tell, I just got burned by a woman. She was my gf for almost 4 years, and just recently cheated on me and then left me. Of course, hindsight has perfect vision and I can now see that she isn't capable of being in a healthy relationship (of course, I had my own problems but I'm dealing with those and will be a much better person/partner). I'll just leave it at that so as not to degenerate into a bitching session about my ex. |
I'm sorry, demonk. I know that had to hurt. No one likes being betrayed.
As you already said, you learned and will be a better person going into the next relationship. Glad to see you still have your spunk after being burnt.
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demonk
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Posted on: May 22 2002,01:05 |
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Well, it's been over a month, and I've gotten better than I have ever been in my entire life. But for the first month after, I was pretty bad. She broke up with me over the phone from Korea where she is on a study abroad program, so I think I was entitled to be a little bitter and depressed. But I'm better now.
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editor
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Posted on: May 22 2002,01:36 |
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What is "snogging"?
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CycleLady
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Posted on: May 22 2002,02:44 |
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| Quote (demonk @ 21 May 2002,19:05) | | Well, it's been over a month, and I've gotten better than I have ever been in my entire life. But for the first month after, I was pretty bad. She broke up with me over the phone from Korea where she is on a study abroad program, so I think I was entitled to be a little bitter and depressed. But I'm better now. |
Hey, you need to mourn the loss. I think it's healthy to be bitter and depressed after such an event. Glad to hear you're feeling better now. Onward and upward, eh? You're doing great 
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CycleLady
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Posted on: May 22 2002,02:55 |
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| Quote (editor @ 21 May 2002,19:36) | | What is "snogging"? |
British slang for french kissing
contrasting with the work "snerg" which is actually two elephants attached at the trunk
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Beastie Dr
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Posted on: May 22 2002,03:05 |
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| Quote (Wolfguard @ 20 May 2002,07:10) | | Quote (ic0n0 @ 20 May 2002,05:27) | | umm i do not think they like being called bitchs. |
how about boo boo kitty fuck? |
Wolfy, that just made my day
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Wolfguard
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Posted on: May 22 2002,14:47 |
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dont than me,
Thank Jay and Silent Bob
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kuru
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Posted on: May 22 2002,23:21 |
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| Quote (Wolfguard @ 20 May 2002,08:10) | | Quote (ic0n0 @ 20 May 2002,05:27) | | umm i do not think they like being called bitchs. |
how about boo boo kitty fuck? |
Perfect.
And as for why chicks are bitches...... cause they get away with it.
I'm all for 'guilty until proven innocent.' However, guys are assholes for exactly the same reason and they get equal opportunity to prove they are 'good guys.'
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