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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 17 2000,05:33  Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
The problem comes when the guy can't stand the grrl vocing her opinion on something. Im very outspoken (Im also a total geek- I read too much) and I think guys for the most part are intimidated by me (I doubt Im the only girl out there who feels this way) I often find that my "cuter" more "dimure" friends often end up with the guys Ive spoken to. This is I think why I end up on IRC because for the most part all you deal with is personality which is what I have going for me (at least I hope so).
Its just so hard to find the right person out there when everyone is so cut throat about it. I hate competition so I usually stay out of them game. But I would love to find a guy who likes to watch wrestling and eat pizza but who doesn't mind going to see a musical- see what I mean - Im better off alone I reckon.
*RANT* *RANT* *RANT* *RANT*

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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 17 2000,12:27 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
That's totally correct, people do have feelings, but consider this-

It aint only girls who have them, we guys have them too. How the fuck do you think we guys feel when we get dumped by some chick who then goes and starts dating our best friend before the day is out? huh?

TURN ABOUT IS FAIR PLAY.

They do it to us and hurt our feelings, why the fuck shouldnt we do it back huh?

Maybe if girls stopped being such asses with us then we'd stop being such asses with them.

And no, I'm not blaming it all on women, just for the most part, in this situation at least, its them who start it.

I'm in a position to speak on this coz it's happened to me so many times I cant remember how many exactly, out of every girl I've been with, I've never finished with one of them, they've always finished with me and then gone off and started screwin around with one of my best friends. It aint nice is it guys? and no, it sure aint nice for the girls either.

What I want to know is, if everyone is expected to do everything that makes everyone else happy, and not hurt them or their feelings, why are there racists in the world? why are there wars going on? why me? why you? why them? why this? why that?

Why.. because nobody gives a crap deep down, it's all about gettin ahead with the majority (and i'm speakin at LEAST 90\% of the WORLD) of people, those of us that arent all about gettin ahead, you can contact us on these bulletin boards, coz we're practically the only ones that seem to give a shit.

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didnt i clarify?...the girl's ex is not my friend, hes a friend of my friend. my friend is telling me to go for it, in fact excessivly so. besides the guy was cheating on her, and he had been planning to break up with her for a month, so i really doubt he cares. and to tell you the truth, i wouldnt care if he did, he broke it off, its his fault. if she had broken up with him, that would be a different story.
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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 17 2000,19:39 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Sorry Sithiee...
I didn't mean to get on you about that- I'm just still hurt I guess.

And Kayy- your right it does hurt just as much for the guys it happens to as for the girls.

I just kind of wish that people would be more respectful of others- it would make the world better.

Im a big believer in the "golden rule" y'know
"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you"
that doesn't mean if someone stabs you in the back that you by all rights have a reason to do it to them. No in fact it means that when someone does that to you that you should treat them with kindness because it is how you would want to be treated. I think sometimes it's hard to look at things in a mature perspective (oh believe me I know)but if everyone did that things would be different.

I know Im living a pipe dream but let me have my dreams.

Where have all the good guys gone who don't fuck their ex's friends (and the same goes for girls)? I'm beginning to lose hope here.
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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 18 2000,02:36 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
You go girl! I'm a big fan of the golden rule as well.

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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 18 2000,04:25 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Why can't the world be like us Hell?
I mean- no war- no racisim- no hatred- no backstabbing sluts stealing the man you love away...
oh sorry about that
I just think that if everyone THOUGHT about what they were doing before they actually did it no one would get hurt and the world would be beautiful...call me an idealist
I say the best litmus test for life is to put yourself in the other person's shoes...if you would be hurt or upset or angered by something then chances are the other person will be too.

And does anyone else fine the phrase
"it just happened" a little disconserting?

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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 18 2000,10:36 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Nothing "just happens," there is always a cause for every effect. We have free will and with it comes responsibility. If more people took responsibility for their actions the world would be much better off.

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You know something Hell...Im beginning to like you
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You are correct nothing just happens- it's so easy to excuse one's self when they just speak that line. I don't use the phrase cause it really bothers me.
But thats just me

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It bothers me too, which is why I don't use it either. Another one I don't like is "the devil made me do it" or any other phrase that is used as an excuse such as "my parents molested me as a child." It's all fine and good to want freedom to do what you want to do, but freedom without responsibility is not freedom.

I'm starting to like you too

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Hrm .. I agree that everything has a cause and effect, but that child molestation thing was just wrong.

It's an excuse yes, but it's not something that they can be blamed for. When a child is molested it's not thier fault. It's a known fact that kids that were molested can grow up to be child molestors too. When that happens to a kid something just breaks and they grow up to be screwed in the head. I'm not saying that it's right, but to say that the fact that they were molested as a kid had nothing to do with it seems cruel.

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