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Last night my boyfriend and I broke up. It was a mutual agreement... we decided to stay friends, which we probably should have stayed from the beginning. We didn't have a fight or anything, we just realized we were too different. We'd both felt like that for a while, so parting is better for both of us. I've expected this to happen, and I've even wanted this to happen. I like him, and he likes me, but we're just not made to be a couple... I know he'll be fine, and I'll be fine...

Just why am I feeling so crappy now?

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Probably for the same reason that I felt like shit after an amicable split with a girlfriend of SEVEN YEARS. You love the other person but can't be with them in that capacity. It's really hard to wrap your head around without feeling cruddy. Sorry to hear that.

So... um... can I buy you a drink? ;)

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No, I'm taking her out first.  I've already promised her a shoulder to cry on.

The battle between your conflicting emotions is hard.  I've been going through that myself now for a while.  Today is actually the worst I've felt in a month or so.  That's because she is coming back from Korea, where she broke up with me.  Haven't seen her in 4 months, and haven't talked with her for most of that time.  It is very hard to have to two emotions of "I was with her for 4 years, we have a lot of history together, a lot of it really good, and I still feel something towards them" and the "I wish her plane would crash into the ocean and there would be only one death: her's" feeling.  Does not make for a happy, functional member of society.

Attention all of detnet:  Free drinks this Friday night, on me, to any and all member living in or near or can get to the Portland, OR area.  The first two rounds will be on me!  Either we are toasting my final breaking free from the evil she-devil, or we will be moarning my complete lack of a backbone.  Either way, we are getting drunk!

(email me if you really do want to do this.  we'll make plans.aadain2001@hotmail.com)

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Sorry honey :( *HUGS!*

ok, remember what i said about the cats and you will be fine  inlove.gif

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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 25 2002,00:34 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

Been in the same situation...about a month and a half ago.  Being alone is not a fun place, but if it's for the best, which it sounds like it is, you've just got to tough it out.

Sorry, kiddo.

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Its rough, thats the worse part.  But with this split taken place do you think you can move on and things work out for the best?  Yeah it will happen.  Your emotions are still running from the relationship so it will take some time to change gears.  I know .. I spent three solid days with my best friend.. we got close ... we were inseprable and stayed that way almost the whole summer.. its like .. i would leave and get about 3 minutes down the road she would call my cell and be like "I MISS YOU"  now she could care less... it just takes time girl

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Ok, I have a question. I'm 18 in three months, and it still seems like every girl is stupid and immature and just follows her estrogen into dumb situations.
I moved and the place I moved to was devoid of people I felt worthy of my friendship, but there was one really freakin awesome girl I had so much fun with. I ended up developing a crush on her and told her, and it turns out she was going out with this guy again. One day I told her something really important, and she lied to me and told the very next day. I was so pissed I didn't talk to her for three weeks, before she finally broke down and wrote me a note and said "I miss you so much, it makes me cry every day, I want you back" and so when I got over being pissed at her, I have been standing with my arms wide open trying to get her to open back up to me, but since then she's done nothing but shrug me off when I make an effort to hang out with her. He's broken up with her [for the 6th time] and she is so hurt but she doesn't listen to a god damn word I have to say.
Are all girls this stupid? Why do they hurt me so much when I have nothing but love for them? Will they always be this stupid? Please tell me it's not me.

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get rid of that bitch dude. shes just using you. you dont wanna go fucking your life over for her benifit.

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Quote (BigBear @ 24 June 2002,19:19)
...stuff...Please tell me it's not me.

Not you.

Them.

Deal.

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One day I told her something really important, and she lied to me and told the very next day. I was so pissed I didn't talk to her for three weeks, before she finally broke down and wrote me a note and said "I miss you so much, it makes me cry every day, I want you back" and so when I got over being pissed at her, I have been standing with my arms wide open trying to get her to open back up to me, but since then she's done nothing but shrug me off when I make an effort to hang out with her. He's broken up with her [for the 6th time] and she is so hurt but she doesn't listen to a god damn word I have to say.
Are all girls this stupid? Why do they hurt me so much when I have nothing but love for them? Will they always be this stupid? Please tell me it's not me.

seems like this girl used you as a rebound from the other guy.

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