[reassuring]you've got absolutely nothing to worry about. you can be as eager as you want the first time. you're still gonna be nervous. relax. and as long as your partner isn't going "ha ha" you're fine. she'll understand if she knows it's your first time. and she'll help you get it up if you give her a bit of... manual stimulaton first. it should even get YOUR motor running again.
and i know EXACTLY what you mean about the no-show on the bj. given time, you'll get used to it. it takes me a helluvalot longer to cum from a bj than from a hand or from pussy. that dosen't mean they're not worth the wait.
oh, and even if you think it kills the mood, USE SOME GODDAMN PROTECTION. if you're both sure you haven't got some kind of horrible diseases, then at least make sure nobody ends up pregnant.
you are NOT a faliure, man. stiff upper lip. the rest should follow suit ;-)
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--directhex
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The master has no need for money. And yet he sits and counts it. As a meditation.
-The Book of Cataclysm