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Bozeman 
Guardian
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Posted on: Sep. 28 2000,13:25 |
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He'd be there. Don't doubt a horny guy with a mission, we get the job done...usually...
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Greasemonk
I am almost one of Us.
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Posted on: Sep. 28 2000,16:06 |
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Does having 7"+ length and 3" girth qualify as a perfect guy? 
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kuru
Detonate.net's 9mm wielding geek-hit-Goddess
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Posted on: Sep. 28 2000,22:28 |
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personguy: if you meant me by your last post... there's been nothing in the past like abuse or rape or anything that caused me to be as sexual as i am. not that i sleep around either. i'm extremely picky about that, and it's why the list of guys who i've actually had sex with is as short as it is. when i said that i love men, i meant i love everything about them. i love talking to them, hanging out with them, going to movies, etc... with them. i'm sorry if you got the impression that i was like 'whoa, dudes, i just wanna fuck 'em all' cause that's not even close to what i'm really like. yeah, i'm hyper sexual when i'm in a monogamous relationship with a guy... and only with THAT guy. truth is, when i hear stuff like 'i could have a 1 nighter with you' it's an instant turn OFF. i made that mistake exactly twice, and i can't see it happening again. no offense, but i could never have anything to do with a guy who'd want nothing more than one fuck with me. i'm worth more than that. a lot more. i said this to a friend of mine once, and it still holds true... i know what people assume about me because of my attitudes and the easy way i talk about sex, and i pity them that they are unable or unwilling to ever look deeper. ------------------
kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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reman
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kuru,it's interesting, one of my friends has a similar attitude towards sex as you, open, liberal, open to discussion and experimentation. But (and it's a fairly major but) he does not have the strictures that you place on partners that he does. he is just as happy to have a casual fling, as he is to have a long happy relationship with only one person. also he cares less about the person's attributes than you do, he doesnt need someone to intelligently converse with him, he doesnt need them to appreciate him for who he is...blah blah... hmmm let me guess your star sign...my guess is you're a cancer...hmm i may be talking out of my ass...oh well regards, reman ------------------
People ask me to fix their computer. I do in 5 seconds.
They say "You think your good don't you".
I say "I know I'm good". People always ask stupid questions.
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kuru
Detonate.net's 9mm wielding geek-hit-Goddess
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reman: i'm not a cancer. i'm also not opposed to casual flings, but i rarely find it possible to spend enough time around someone i can't talk to that i can sleep with him. my 'casual flings' are usually with someone who's already a friend.... a sort of 'friends with benefits' type of deal.brodie: accepting unconditional love is hard, i have a difficult time accepting it myself. i think what helps me is that i've learned that it's not up to me. if someone wants to love me completely and unconditionally, there's not a damn thing i can do about it. love is something that people give because they want to, it's a gift that i try to accept graciously. i have a VERY hard time believing that i deserve unconditional love, but i try. i don't expect any guy to ever understand why i love him no matter what, why i want no terms, no conditions, and i don't even ask that he love me back before i give my own love to him. my heart is not a rational thing, it chooses, without the involvement of my brain, who it loves and how. by 'accept and try to understand that he deserves it' all i mean is that i hope he'll know that i give my love freely, because it makes me happy, because my heart believes he deserves it, and i ask nothing in return. i just want him to know that he doesn't have to believe he deserves it, that to me, it's enough that i believe he does. i hope that made sense. ------------------
kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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