i like dudes who make noise. moan, grunt, yell my name, talk dirty.. it's all good. it's not only a big turn on, but if the guy is vocal about it, i know if i'm doin what he likes. if your memory sucks or you don't trust it, then don't use names.. even 'oh baby' works. just make sure you /mean/ whatever noises you're making.that goes for girls too. faking it is rude and cruel and often gives guys the wrong idea about their 'talent'
i'm all in favor of being loud.. for both guys and girls.
my neighbours on the other hand.... might disagree. maybe i should by them some earplugs.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa