Topic: Ever been cheated on?
started by: demonk
Posted by demonk on Jun. 21 2002,20:43
Just wondering what percent of detnet people have ever been cheated on. Next poll: have YOU ever cheated?Definition of cheating: knowingly sleeping with another person (could be same sex even) while in an active relationship with a different person. If you are on a 'break', then it doesn't count.
Posted by joelthegreat on Jun. 21 2002,20:50
Wow, talk about being on crack. It gave me the options to vote, and I voted but it told me I already have voted, and so I choose the null vote and it said the same thing...wierd.I haven't been cheated on but I had a sneaking suspicion of an ex girlfriend of mine, but it is in the past and I'm married and happy now.
Posted by Wiley on Jun. 21 2002,20:56
I've been cheated on, but the girl was really hot and I didn't care. I figured as long as she was around when I wanted her it didn't matter what she did in her off time.When it came time to dump her I did it just after sex just to piss her off. "baby, that was great ...hey, I don't think we should see eachother anymore"
Posted by Beldurin on Jun. 21 2002,21:13
Been cheated on. The real pisser is that just a couple of weeks ago, I found out that she had told people that I was the one who had cheated on her!!!
Posted by lykosis on Jun. 21 2002,21:30
oh yeah.
Posted by demonk on Jun. 21 2002,22:05
Time to smack that bitch up. Spreading lies to hurt his reputation is the act of a small, bitter person.IMHO, cheating is the lowest thing you can do to a significant other. Especially if you are just dating. If you won't want to be with the person anymore and/or want to be with someone else specificaly, then tell the person "hey, I don't want to go out with you anymore. Good luck with life." Sleeping with the other person while staying with the first is just downright greedy and a good way to lose all trust and respect from your partner(s)/friends/family. Just a shitty ass thing to do.
(Yes, I was cheated on, and not very long ago. I had planned on marrying that girl too
)
Posted by lykosis on Jun. 21 2002,22:15
it's also a good way to get all your possesions piled up in the yard and set on fire.
Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 22 2002,00:14
does it count if she is cheating on you with her husband? 
Im no angel, i have been on both sides of this.
I cheated on my first wife of 5 years.
Karma got me and the woman i left my first wife for cheated on me and makes damm sure i cant see my kid. (yes, there is a little female Wolfguard out in the world)
Should of known better but there was something there at one time. Now she is just the CUNT BITCH FROM HELL.
live and learn...
Posted by demonk on Jun. 22 2002,00:19
| Quote (Wolfguard @ 21 June 2002,16:14) |
| CUNT BITCH FROM HELL |
Are you sure we aren't talking about the same girl?
Women: can't live with them, can't be a heterosexual without them
At least I have learned from this experience. Next woman who tries to fuck me over (not literally, I won't mind that
) will be in for a BIG suprise
Posted by Necromancer on Jun. 22 2002,00:53
this implies you are planning on being cheated on in the future. 
me thinks you a bit too paranoid
Posted by demonk on Jun. 22 2002,01:00
"Remember, you are not paranoid if they really are out to get you!" -Some guy (refused to give name )And, of course:
"Only the paranoid survive" -Andy Grove (Co-founder of Intel)
Posted by Marauder on Jun. 22 2002,06:52
The quote is from Babylon 5 - I think is was Michael Garibaldi. Sounds like him, anyways.
Posted by TheTaxMan on Jun. 22 2002,09:51
"Just because you're paranoid doesn't me they're not out to get you." That was on the x-files. Poor show went down the crapper...
Posted by The_Stomper on Jun. 22 2002,12:08
Never cheated. Had plenty of chances. Damned frosh week."No, I do not want to fuck you. Now put some god damn clothes on."
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jun. 22 2002,16:19
Everytime I've been cheated on (2 people have done so, one of them multiple times) I have done something of less than scrupulous moral grounding as revenge. I actually kinda felt bad for one of my exes. Well, almost. Cheating whore.
Posted by Nikita on Jun. 23 2002,01:01
been cheated on ... damn shugaskankies and their gold-digging, scheming moms I've been tempted to cheat a couplea times ... but then realized the shortage of good guys guys (nice+smart+sexy) and how damn lucky I am to finally have one ...
I can only hope that what goes around will come around and plant itself knee-deep in the person's ass ...
Damnit, it didn't let me vote!
Posted by kuru on Jun. 23 2002,02:02
I was cheated on once. And I'm still paying him back.Nick from Bellefonte PA has the tiniest dick I've ever seen on an adult man.
Posted by Necromancer on Jun. 23 2002,02:14
| Quote (Marauder @ 22 June 2002,06:52) |
| I think is was Michael Garibaldi |
that guy IS BRUCE WILLIS!
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jun. 23 2002,04:25
I have cheated once, in the Clinton form of cheating. That was all. I still feel guilty about it and that was when I was in a horrible love/hate relationship with a lunatic, so, that should give you a little insight as to how likely I am to cheat on someone I really care about.
Posted by Marauder on Jun. 23 2002,07:01
Not Bruce Willis, but DAMNED close.
Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 23 2002,17:55
| Quote (The_Stomper @ 22 June 2002,07:08) |
| "No, I do not want to fuck you. Now put some god damn clothes on." |
The question? What words will never come out of my mouth?
Posted by incubus on Jun. 24 2002,17:00
I've already voted apparently. Shame, I didn't fit in anyway.Done it, had it done to me, alls fair in love and war...
You can't just say it like that, there's always two sides to a story. The "cheater" is not necessarily a bad person ...
Posted by demonk on Jun. 24 2002,17:09
Oh, I used to think she was the nicest person in the whole world until this happened. It really showed what she was capable of. Cheating is not ok to do when you are in a committed relationship. If you want to be with another person, then tell the person you are dating that you don't want to be with them anymore. You can't give the old saying "Let's see other people and then see how we feel". That's bullshit. You don't go from being in a committed relationship to dating other people and then back to being committed. Too much trust is lost. That's what this is all about: trust. Once a person cheats, they have lost all trust in my eyes. It's dishonest, self centered, and emotionally abusive to the person being cheated on. Wish we could make it a crime...
Posted by BigBear on Jun. 25 2002,02:16
Oh lord yes. I've never been a cheater/cheatee, but I got ditched because I wasn't chasing after her like a crazed sex lunatic. I forgave her and went for it a second time... and the same thing happened. Go fuigure the one time I didn't pay attention to the "fucked once, fucked twice if you let her" rule.
Posted by Marauder on Jun. 29 2002,17:21
| Quote (BigBear @ 24 June 2002,18:16) |
| Oh lord yes. I've never been a cheater/cheatee...Go figure the one time I didn't pay attention to the "fucked once, fucked twice if you let her" rule. |
...confirming my suspicion that messing with women is more dangerous than diving into a two-foot deep lake. Pity they can be so damn intoxicating.
Posted by Darth Liberus on Jul. 05 2002,23:45
"Hi, I'm Tommy from the TV show Cheaters."
been cheated on in a major way... last serious girlfriend was fucking her ex for most of the time we were going out, including several times while we were living together. They've been married for five years now and are still very happy. I wound up so bitter and distrustful that I haven't had a serious girlfriend since... haven't even been interested in flings... just give me some pr0n and keep real women away from me.
have cheated in a minor way - if you count kissing as cheating, that is.
Posted by compact3000 on Jul. 10 2002,15:20
some girl cheated on her boyfriend for me... she didnt really like him, but then a few weeks later they were very happy, and for some reasion they broke up, then me and her went out, and broke up 4 days later... 
Posted by Necromancer on Jul. 10 2002,22:53
if you go out with someone who has dumped someone else to go out with you then you cant expect them not to do the same to you can you now.
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jul. 11 2002,13:39
The harsh sting of reality sets in. It's true, but nobody wants to believe that they are just like everyone else who gets screwed over.
Posted by Uberkommando on Jul. 17 2002,06:31
I've been cheated on; never been the cheater. Sadly, she was a whore for everyone but me. Kind of funny, in a seriously demoralizing kind of way.