Forum: Sex
Topic: anal sex... fun ?
started by: SPasmofiT

Posted by SPasmofiT on Aug. 20 2000,14:16
is anal sex really pleasant for girls?

I mean, I know it's good for guys because it's tight and stuff, and I've alse read that in some cases it's fun for girl to... seeing that the anus is very sensitive and stuff...

so, I'm asking again, can it be fun for girls?

I'm already obsessing over this, and I've rather won't if it isn't fun for everyone...

P.S. if it's not fun for her too, I think it just masturbation with her ass hole

[This message has been edited by SPasmofiT (edited August 21, 2000).]


Posted by Pete the Pirate on Aug. 21 2000,04:38
you are now my hero.
Posted by SPasmofiT on Aug. 21 2000,16:52
What do you mean by that? I am lamme for thinking like this, or what ?
Posted by Vigilante on Aug. 21 2000,18:03
Women have three orifices, and rarely use them as properly intended.

Mouth = entry only. Far too much sound comes out of a female oral orifice.
Vagina = entry only. For the love of god people, please, no more babies for a frickin decade. We got enough crotchlings as it is.
Rectum = entry/exit. The secondary function of this one is the one that sees the most use; women, you need to realize the anal orifice has a dual use, and accept it.


Posted by caseman984 on Aug. 22 2000,05:52
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD NOOOOOO!!!!!! WOMEN HAVE A VAGINA FOR A REASON! USE IT!!!!

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Posted by demonk on Aug. 22 2000,15:08
Anal sex can be VERY enjoyable, if it is done right. Problem is is that most people don't take the time to learn how to do it right, and then they end up getting hurt and never want to try it again. And there is also the fact that most girls think it is nasty and wrong. That kinda hampers the exploration of this type of sex.
Posted by kixzor2 on Aug. 23 2000,00:03
Yes Anal sex is nasty. Prehaps if she were blacked out or anethsitised at the time it might be a little better. It just hurts like hell and that's all there is too it.
Posted by Pete the Pirate on Aug. 23 2000,01:59
i ment it as , you are my hero = you are my hero

my mates all think im a sick bastard for thinking like that, they keep saying "why play in the mud if there is a lawn next door?"


Posted by demonk on Aug. 23 2000,13:44
kixzor2: You must be one of the people I mentioned in my first post. Didn't learn how to do it right, got hurt, on are now completely turned off to it. The anus has \%50 of all nerve endings in the abdomon. So, if you do it right, it can feel more intense than vaginal sex. Of course you have to stop and read about how to do it and prepare to do it. Going at it dry would hurt like a bitch.

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Posted by kixzor2 on Aug. 26 2000,10:40
Nope. I dissagree with ya there. Normal vaginal sex is far better (psycologically too) than anal sex no matter how much you argue about it with a chick.


Posted by mkymky on Aug. 26 2000,23:10
Butt sex is wild, and it dont cause no child!

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Posted by kuru on Aug. 31 2000,11:17
anal sex..
is a damn good thing.

i can only rely on personal experience, but some of you, it sounds like you need more lube. astroglide, somethin.

the body was designed like an amusement park, and i'm determined to try all the rides. i'm a chick. i like anal. it feels good. it feels even /better/ if the dude (or i) does that reach around deal and there's stimulation goin on in the front too.

part of it, i think, with guys is this tendency to think of any type of anal sex as something that only gay guys do. i'm not gay, i'm not even a guy. that's a really sensitive area. stimulated the right way, it's a lot of fun.


SPasmofiT, to answer your question
"is anal sex really pleasant for girls?"

it is to this chick. and i mean /really/ pleasant.

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Posted by demonk on Aug. 31 2000,16:42
Finally, a woman who is willing to try something before dismissing it.
Posted by kuru on Aug. 31 2000,19:57
demonk...

you might wanna read my post in the 'sex toys' thread. it's half of my philosophy.

the other half of it is this:

try anything, twice. the first time, it's too new to tell if you like it.

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Posted by Nemo2342 on Sep. 01 2000,16:51
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that it can be pleasurable for a guy as well. No, you don't have to be gay, or even bi, to enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex.

My philosophy is: Never ask someone to do something that you wouldn't be willing to do, and try everything with an open mind at least once.

Though after seeing kuru's post, I think I'll change that to "try everything with an open mind at least twice" ;)

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Posted by PersonGuy on Sep. 01 2000,23:39
Ok, I was waiting for someone else to say it FIRST, but I'll have to agree! Both with the saying, and that I also find it pleasurable... but I'm ALSO not gay or bi.
STRAP-ON BAY-BEE!

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Posted by Nemo2342 on Sep. 02 2000,03:32
Mmmm, strap-ons. Just gotta find a girl who'd be willing to wear it for me. Oh well, at least I still have my vibrator for those long, lonely nights ;P

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Posted by kuru on Sep. 04 2000,19:21
ahh to find a guy who wouldn't mind lettin me wear a strap on. and those enlightened ones who'll let me stick a finger up their butt durin a bj... love those guys... open-minded men are so sexy... it doesn't make 'em gay if they enjoy some up the butt action done to them... from what i hear, stimulation of the prostate is extremely pleasurable.

sorry for the delay dudes, i was out for the weekend.

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Posted by Hooker With A Penis on Sep. 05 2000,06:07
quote:
Originally posted by kuru:
ahh to find a guy who wouldn't mind lettin me wear a strap on. and those enlightened ones who'll let me stick a finger up their butt durin a bj... love those guys... open-minded men are so sexy... it doesn't make 'em gay if they enjoy some up the butt action done to them... from what i hear, stimulation of the prostate is extremely pleasurable.

sorry for the delay dudes, i was out for the weekend.


i could marry you your rite though its not GAY its about being open and willing to experiment , hell i look at it like this...
i would rather have a female that i am currently engaging in a sexual act with stick her finger up my ass than an aging disgruntled proctologist with shakey , cold , gnarly , latex covered hands poking around my bum asking when my last physcal was...

Nooge

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Posted by Willy Pete on Sep. 05 2000,09:43
I knew it was enjoyable for both parties involved, but was under the impression that guys had more to experience from it than girls (for once) due to the fact that we have a prostate and girls don't. Yes/No? You seem most apt to verify this don't you Kuru?

Just makes sense, not that it is the case mind you.

Oh, and Kuru, that reach around does work well doesn't it.

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Posted by kuru on Sep. 05 2000,11:27
hooker, right on dude... marry me? whatcha doin next saturday?

couldn't tell you how good it feels on the
guy's end, to have somethin up the bum. for me tho, it doesn't just feel good because it feels good, there's also a big psychological component in there... i can't explain exactly what /that's/ like, but there's some mental aspect to 'he's pounding my bum' that really gets me goin.

it probably does stand to reason that a guy would get more out of just anal than a girl would, since stimulating the prostate can even make a guy orgasm. so i'd say if that's /all/ you were doing, tho a guy and girl might both enjoy it, the guy would cum and the girl may not. but hey, if that's all you're doin, you're not usin your body's full potential. and don't forget those dildos... a little in each hole can go a long way for a chick.

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Posted by Nemo2342 on Sep. 05 2000,18:21
Well, it's hard to put into words just exactly how it feels. It's definately arousing, and enjoyable, but if you do it wrong it hurts like hell. Fingers usually aren't a problem, but any kind of toy needs to be lubed fairly well. Erm, I had a point somewhere, but I think I lost it. Oh well.

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Posted by Greasemonk on Sep. 06 2000,18:23
Sooo, whats the deal. Should a guy plug you before you shit or a few hours after youve taken a dump??
Posted by kuru on Sep. 06 2000,20:15
the best way is to do an enema a little beforehand. the guy doesn't hafta be there for that part, unless he wants to. if you can't handle that action, it's best if you can time it to be less than 4 hours after a dump. and take a shower before, but as close to it as possible.

oh, and i don't advise on any mexican food or anything before that. too funky.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Sep. 06 2000,22:54
OMG!!!! AFTER! AFTER! You pack fudge and it's EXTREAMELY painful (on the recieving end). But an enema isn't nessisary!! Have the receiver not go number 2 for like 5 days. Then go for it about 2 hours after they're done. And ALWAYS use a condum! Lots of bacteria live in the rectum, and can cause a severe infection! And STDs are transmitted much easier through anal sex.

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Posted by kuru on Sep. 07 2000,00:25
an enema before anal sex cleans out the colon so you don't get any feces residue.

i've never experienced this extreme pain you're talking about, personguy. it's not like having anal sex causes some kind of back up that makes bowel movements misery. it does, however, stretch out the sphincter muscle, and if you do it without proper loosening up or lubrication, it is going to hurt. unless you're hot on the idea of giving a rimjob, get the astroglide, k-y jelly, or some other WATER BASED lubricant out and use your fingers.

personguy is right about the condoms. WEAR them. it's extremely easy to catch diseases and get infections from anal sex. the blood vessels there are fragile and close to the surface. also, a lubricated condom with nonoxynol-9 not only cuts down your chances of any sort of infection, but it'll make things much more pleasant. adding a lube like astroglide or k-y jelly is a good idea, but do NOT use stuff like vaseline. it must be water based, because anything else will break down the latex of the condom and you lose all the disease preventing benefits of having worn a condom.

the key with anal sex is to relax, use a lot of lube, and take it slowly, especially the first time.

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'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa


Posted by demonk on Jul. 10 2002,23:26
For some reason, I feel like being a real shit and bringing back and VERY old thread.  Let's see what all the new people have to say about this one :)

Oh, can't forget the *bump*
Posted by WillyPete on Jul. 11 2002,01:08
Well, I was reading it thinking a lot of new people HAD joined in just because of this subject.
then I saw my name with the FNG title and blew up thinking someone had pinched my nick.
Then I remembered at the early days of Det1 I spelt it Willy Pete, with a space, till I lost the password.

Dude, you gave me a fucking anuerism.

On the subject, it's been nice to see some of the once very absent vets.
Long time no see Liney.

Hehe, funny that a thread about wanking brings people out of the woodwork.
Posted by forumwhore on Jul. 11 2002,02:10
I like the shower scenario.  

Just wash each other and get very thorough.

And then get carried away...
Posted by RadioActive on Jul. 11 2002,02:43
isn't there an issue of using water-based lube in the shower?
Posted by Wolfguard on Jul. 11 2002,03:03
it does take a while for it to wash off...
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jul. 11 2002,13:51
And you can just bring the bottle in with you and keep it comin'...

Butt sex fascinates me and scares me.

I've never had a woman brave enough to do anything behind on me, but I've converted a number of women by giving them some attention with my fingers while my face is around front.

This thread surprised me, I must say. :)
Posted by demonk on Jul. 11 2002,16:26
Long Live Anal Sex!!!!

(now to just find a girly who will actuly let me show her the light)
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jul. 11 2002,16:45
That's somewhere I would be reeeeally picky if I were you... :D
Posted by Dark-Angel99 on Jul. 20 2002,08:40
I like anal along with Kuru... Its amazing when someone is playing with my clit at the same time!
Posted by kuru on Jul. 20 2002,15:31
Whoa there DA. Don't want anyone gettin the idea that you and I have anal in the same place at the same time.

Anyway, I need to find more men who aren't opposed to being on the receiving end.
Posted by Vigilante on Jul. 20 2002,17:32
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Posted by ic0n0 on Jul. 20 2002,18:31
Another sex thread, this makes me sad. :(
Posted by demonk on Jul. 20 2002,18:50
God I need to meet a woman that likes anal!
Posted by kuru on Jul. 21 2002,16:30
I'm really sorry you're in Oregon.... ;)
Posted by Marauder on Jul. 22 2002,06:25
Quote (ic0n0 @ 20 July 2002,10:31)
Another sex thread, this makes me sad. :(


The what are you doing in the Sex forum?


Posted by ^Oni^ on Jul. 22 2002,13:34
I feel bad that he's in Oregon too... but not because I would sleep with him. :D

Like I said before... no woman has been brave enough to try anything so I don't know whether I would like it or not...
Posted by demonk on Jul. 22 2002,17:10
Quote (^Oni^ @ 22 July 2002,05:34)
I feel bad that he's in Oregon too... but not because I would sleep with him. :D

:(  And I was really hoping to get some hot man-on-man anal action from you :(
Posted by ^Oni^ on Jul. 23 2002,03:02
Bah... you already walk funny. :D
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