Forum: Sex
Topic: god damn types
started by: CatKnight
Posted by j0eSmith on Mar. 24 2001,06:27
I have a simple solution to all of this, and that is: Poison. Yes, Poison. Avaliable at a j0eSmith's Funky Poison Shack near you. (Should there not be a jFPS near you, simply send me a couple hundred dollars and a self addressed stamped envelope, and I'll steal some Bromine from my friend)  Seriously though, I wish I had some advice to offer, but I'm in more or less the same situation as you. ------------------
When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass
Posted by masher on Mar. 24 2001,06:59
about the same here joe. One girl is over east, one has a bf, one has a bf and didn't bother to tell me, one just like me as a friend.Its beginning to get me down... ------------------
"The theory of gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love." - Einstein
Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 24 2001,13:50
The fact that her boyfriend is like YOU should give you a VERY important clue. HE got there FIRST! Therefore, you need to branch out and find one before someone else does.Don't see anyone around? ... BRANCH OUT!  Start doing some new activities where you can meet new people. Bowling league, arcade, pool hall, gym, dojo, pool, etc. Those are just a few suggestions from the LONG LONG list of things to do. ------------------
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Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 24 2001,17:54
why the fuck do i only feel a certain way about a few rare girls? i've only met 3 or so girls that are my 'type'. i.e. very mature and cynical. this really sucks. whenever i meet a girl that is my type they always have a boyfriend who is cool and nice (and a lot like me). fuck dammit!
Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 24 2001,20:32
yes i agree personguy. it is because he got there first. it happens every single fuckin time. i tried branching out. all i found were even more attractive girls in an even more serious relationship. 
Posted by miNus on Mar. 24 2001,23:50
Hmm... Kinda sounds like my situation, cept I've only met one. She's hot, has a great personality, is REALLY funny, great to hang out with. But when I finally got the balls to ask her out (which was a long time because I'm a dumb shit), she said her life was fucked up and no.
Anyway, I agree with personguy, branching out is a good idea. Hmm... other advice... Don't take joe's advice... and... (this is important) NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. Well, that doesn't count about looks, if she kinda had a little run in with the ugly tree but you guys really hit it off, give it a try.l8r
-miNus
Posted by TonyDennis on Mar. 25 2001,02:57
A little run in with the ugly tree? Haha, that's classic.-Tony ------------------
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Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 25 2001,04:15
NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS? WHOA... hold on...If you're standards are "Sarah Machell Geller", your standards too fuckin high! The trick is to lower your standards to YOU. Meaning: pretend you have to date YOURSELF. Now find a girl of equal quality. Listen, I LOWER MY STANDARDS every time I eat! I want fuckin 5 star! But I don't have that kind of money! ------------------
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Posted by Rhydant on Mar. 25 2001,04:41
heh heh, this happened to my friend a while ago. he was talking about how he never could find a chick he liked. he said "man... there are no girls here that are my type. i mean, there are some, but one's got a boyfriend, the other hates me, and one of thems a lesbian... you know, its just not worth it"
i laughed so hard at him, he shoved me off my chair. it was funny.i want to ask you guys something, do you set a standard that is too HIGH for you? i mean, some girls are obtainable (not in an ownership sort of way), and others are just.... forbidden fruit. kinda like saying "shes not great, but shes the best i can do" i know it sounds weird, but we HAVE TO BE REASONABLE! theres only one girl for me. her name is lindsey. i will have her one day. you just wait. ------------------
...when you look long into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Posted by SaxMaster on Mar. 25 2001,04:46
I hate girls with B/Fs who dont tell me... This happens TOO GOD DAMN MUCH! I apparently have good taste because I ALWAYS pick girls who are taken One time this girl (nameless) and I were hangin for like the whole night and when I FINALLY asked her for her # at the end of the night she had to leave because her boyfriend was there. I hate that shit. I knew the guy too! That was the kicker. Good thing I'm bigger than him or he would have tried to kill me for mackin his woman 
Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Mar. 25 2001,05:23
quote:
Originally posted by Rhydant:
i want to ask you guys something, do you set a standard that is too HIGH for you? i mean, some girls are obtainable (not in an ownership sort of way), and others are just.... forbidden fruit.
uh... i think most dudes don't set their standards HIGH enough - or they're TOO LOW/HIGH on the WRONG THING. Take the looks thing, for example. There are a lot of guys who ONLY go for supermodel-look chicks. Then again, there are a lot of decent-looking guys who go out with total dogs. Now, there IS a problem with being too vain - but not being vain ENOUGH has it's drawbacks. Get this - you know how good looking people can be dumb? So can ugly people. And a dumb, ugly person is a VERY BAD person to go out with, unless you're dumb or ugly or both. Beyond that, they're often very insecure, especially if they think you're smarter and/or better looking than they are - if that happens, you're on the next show of I Was An Emotional Crutch. So try not to go for chicks who put themselves beneath them. And don't be afraid to at least TRY with hot chicks - hell, most of 'em are bitchy, which is a pretty good turn off. The ones that talk to you are worth your time regardless of whether you're together or just friends - NOTHING builds confidence than walking around with a friend that is positively fine. End of transmission 420.
Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 25 2001,11:48
quote:
I hate girls with B/Fs who dont tell me... This happens TOO GOD DAMN MUCH!
yeah i know what u mean. especially when you get to know them better and better, and start to like them more and more, then they hit you with it. then again, i'm pretty sure the last girl who did this to me didn't tell me because she wanted to be friends. oh well.
Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 26 2001,20:48
hmmm...interesting.
Posted by Rhydant on Mar. 26 2001,23:54
that would be scary.------------------
...when you look long into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Posted by Vigilante on Mar. 27 2001,01:03
Don't be so picky, Rhy.
Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 27 2001,01:47
Please... I'm in the comma of sleep at 12:33PM AND I live 3000 miles away! I say go for it Cat-man! I mean... what do you have to lose? ------------------
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Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 27 2001,01:56
sure! depends on where she lives tho. hopefully close
Posted by LiNeY on Mar. 27 2001,06:27
hmmm... I guess I have a simple solution for your problem:
I'm mature, cynical, without b/f and most important of all, I'm a girl.
Any questions? ------------------
Happiness is not a Fish that You can Catch - Our Lady Peace
Posted by askheaves on Mar. 27 2001,06:35
It's like pennies from heaven, Catknight. Just be sure it's not PersonGuy trying out a new handle.
Posted by masher on Mar. 27 2001,11:24
quote:
Originally posted by SaxMaster:
I hate girls with B/Fs who dont tell me...
Especially when they start things going... ------------------
"The theory of gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love." - Einstein
Posted by fire_502 on Mar. 27 2001,14:04
ok, for the sake of girls everywhere, i'll post an example of how this dilemma goes both ways...just last saturday night i went to a party for an organization my roommate is part of. i didn't want to go, but i went anyway because she wanted me to. so i get there and there is this really hot guy there who my roommate askes me if i remember...of course i don't, so i say no. so my roommate is under the influence of several chemicals and ends up introducing us to eachother like 6 times that night. so we were talking and it turns out he is from the same area i am from and we share a lot of the same interests. oh, and he's hot. of all the guys i have thought were cute in some way or another, this guy is the best example of what i totally look for. he's tall and bigger. not really fat, just a bigger guy. he was dressed a tiny bit preppy for my tastes, but it was a party. he has dark hair that was all styled and stuff and these awesome glasses that totally finished his look. he was very sweet and funny too. so we chatted at the party and got to know eachother a bit. then a bunch of us decided to go to the bar and he came with. once we got there i was really starting to buzz, he was totally flirting with me. any time my roommate came over, he would re-introduce himself to me and shake my hand again and tell me that it's nice to meet such a beautiful woman. then when we were figuring out partners for pool, he told me that i was way cuter than his friend, so he wanted me on his side. then there was all the usual stuff, lingering eye contact, brushing his hands against mine, standing really close...all that jazz. so then at the end of the night (of course it's the part where i'm completely wasted-which i'm trying not to do so much anymore because i always do dumb stuff like this when i'm drunk) i make my move to kiss him before he leaves and he only lets me kiss him on the cheek and mumbles something about playing hard to get. so i said, whatever, and walked away. not to mention that this is the second time in my life (and in only two weeks) that i have been denied a kiss...and i was pretty drunk. so i got pretty upset. i mean, here's this guy, totally hot, pretty cool, seems to like me too, and he denies me?!?! so on our way home, my roommate tells me that she's almost postivie he has a girlfriend (the same reason the last guy denied my kiss, but at least he told me himself that he has a gf). she's downstate though and therefore not around to watch over him. so unless he has broken up with this girl in the last month and the news has not gotten around, then he was just playing with me and leaving me totally unaware that he was unavailable...until i find out the hard way. so at least these girls you are falling for *tell you* they have boyfriends and don't let you make a fool over yourself for no reason. guys are way more cruel.
Posted by j0eSmith on Mar. 28 2001,01:47
oh whine, "I got drunk and tried to kiss a guy I just met". Big fucking deal. I belive about ohh.. little to none of that. The fact that most of it is probably a drunken blur really makes your little statement something to be ignored. The guy decided to play pool with you, so you tried to kiss him. Then he decided to, instead of let you go ahead, or push you away, just kiss you on the cheek. And then, not to hurt your feelings decides to say something like that instead of "I'm taken". And you got angry? Why? Cause your a fucking retard.
See? Girls ALWAYS expect guys to be totally open to any move they make, and yet can't understand why guys get upset when they're continually played with and manipulated. So you know what? fuck you.
I WISH every chick I played pool with tried to jump me. Christ, you know that I'd be a much happier person.edit: Oh yes. These guys here are all talking about girls they've been getting closer and closer to over a long period of time. Days and weeks. NOT MINUTES AND FUCKING HOURS, which is about how long you knew this guy you were tring to fuck.
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When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass This message has been edited by j0eSmith on March 28, 2001 at 07:50 PM
Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 28 2001,02:01
Mabey he DOES have a girlfriend and just wanted to have a one night fling. But at the end of the night he only made it as far as a kiss. So he decided that instead of having a lingering misstress (which is IMPOSSIBLE to excuse to his girlfriend), he just refused to put himself in ANY kind of danger. All or nothing... Possible?But yes. It's cruel. And that's why we need a system like the Eastern Indians: 1 dot on head = engaged (boy/girl friend) and 2 dots on head = married. 0 of course is COME GET ME HOT MAMMA! ------------------
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Posted by Rhydant on Mar. 28 2001,02:14
quote:
Originally posted by j0eSmith:
See? Girls ALWAYS expect guys to be totally open to any move they make
PPFFFFTT! i wish that was so...he was prolly playing 'the good guy' and not take advantage of you while you were totally wasted.
see, this is a good thing because he could of got you in the sack, fucked you, then spread a rumor or something that you were a whore and what-not. or that you give bad head...
you know, something ------------------
...when you look long into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Posted by j0eSmith on Mar. 28 2001,03:06
Pft, whatever.. Waaah Waah I tried to kiss him and he didn't let meeee.. waaah, guys are so meeaaan waaah. *flails arms around hysterically*------------------
When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass
Posted by Rhydant on Mar. 28 2001,03:14
j0e... you were watching me on the "whos online" page....
10 whole minutes! THATS SCARY! ------------------
...when you look long into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 28 2001,03:15
quote:
edit: Oh yes. These guys here are all talking about girls they've been getting closer and closer to over a long period of time. Days and weeks. NOT MINUTES AND FUCKING HOURS, which is about how long you knew this guy you were tring to fuck.
excelent point. that is what we were talking about.
Posted by Sithiee on Mar. 28 2001,09:47
agreed, this is a somewhat redeeming day for canadians everywhere
Posted by fire_502 on Mar. 28 2001,14:51
yes, these are all valid points. i realize getting drunk and crossing the line is stupid and it was my fault. i know i was wrong. i never said what i did was right. and i wasn't trying to get him to come home with me. the thing is that he was sending me all these signals that he shouldn't have been sending me if he does indeed have a girlfriend. and if i knew he did have one, why would i spend hours weeks slowly falling in love with him when i knew it would just bring me heartache in the end? i just thought he was cool and would have liked to get to know him better and maybe hang out more...but then i got too drunk. if i had not been stupid enough to drink that much, i would have never done what i did and everything would be set for me to slowly start pining away for him. but knowing what i know now, i'm glad it went that way. besides, there's a thread somewhere saying that girls under 23 don't know what they want...i think it's more that we know what we don't want. we are at the right age where most of us have been through a heartbreak or two and that pain is not something you hope to get back by chasing after another long relationship. believe me, i've learned a lesson.
Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 28 2001,16:25
We (as in I) understand your problem, but it's completely different to the topic at hand. A lot of us guys on this board have a problem where we are way more mature for our age and much more intelligent then the general population. This has the side effect of making us very picky of our women. My problem is that whenever I do find one of these rare girls, she ends up always being taken. If I wanted to go out to a frat and hit on some drunken girl, start making out with her, and then bring her back to my room to fuck, I easily could probably about 20\% of the time (or once every other week). However, I am not at all interested in that.
Posted by Vigilante on Mar. 28 2001,16:37
You should be interested in it. 
Posted by askheaves on Mar. 28 2001,18:43
While joesmith may be totally fucked in the head, he has a point. fire_502 has flipped out after 2... TWO!!! TWO guus flipped out after she sexually assaulted them. Guys are too scared, in most cases, to lunge in for a kiss. We've learned that rejection is 99\% certain, and slap is 85\% certain. Legal action is 40\% certain.I commend joesmith for standing up to that rant and realizing that the rules don't have to be different based on sex.
Posted by LiNeY on Mar. 28 2001,19:49
well, all I can do is assure you that this problem is not only a problem guys have. In fact, I think for girls who are more mature it is even worse... anyway, be it guy or girl, maturity seems to result in pickyness, and also in a certain feeling of not wanting one night stands, or not only those. The actual question is, why are there so many people who seem to be like-minded but don't find each other? We should open an Intellectual's Lonely Hearts Club...
Posted by solid on Mar. 29 2001,02:47
Yea, this world, the way people live. They're all so alienated the the others around them. They're always being told to minimize conflict, which also ends up opressing inner conflicts and so on.Anyhow you can't go out there and just say "Hi!" to everyone you walk by in the streets or anything, or be a bit more friendly to your local convenience mart shopkeeper, or actually talk about your daily life or anything like that with a teller at a bank or anything. Because you probably would think this a bit TOO outgoing. But it's being done in so many places. Small towns, big towns, huge urbanized areas, villages, so on. But not in this country. Not in this continent. Not in the big cities anyways. ... Let's start that damn club.
Posted by askheaves on Mar. 29 2001,04:46
I don't know about you, but I get annoyed when people start randomly talking about their cat's hairball problem. I guess the reason I have any friends is that I hide that annoyance well.
Posted by j0eSmith on Mar. 29 2001,04:54
I think we've found the secret to friendship. Hide your annoyances well. This could almost become deep.------------------
When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass
Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 29 2001,07:52
Here's my idea to make life more enjoyable. Set a network of satalites that can INSTANTLY vaporize anyone. Now you can destroy anyone on the plannet as long as you get 4 other people (in the same city) who also want that person dead. BUT you can only pick one person for your entire life, so you've gotta choose wisely! This way people would try alot harder to not make enemies, and we could get rid of all the people who suck! ------------------
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Posted by Vigilante on Mar. 29 2001,17:54
So, you turn the entire world into Survivor?"Hey, you, you're voted out of existence!" Feh.
Posted by Bozeman on Mar. 30 2001,14:46
I think it was Ghandi who said: "An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind." Correct me if I'm wrong.
Posted by LiNeY on Mar. 30 2001,17:31
It ain't no good to go out and tell anyone about personal problems, but it would indeed make life a LOT happier and easier if people actually talked more to each other. Ever realized how glad a salesgirl is when you exchange some friendly words with her, for example? (I've worked as a salesgirl, so I'm talking from experience...) That would also make it easier to get to know people... I think that in this country people are breaking the record of being cold with each other...
Honestly, there's so many people out there having exactly the same problem that CatKnight describes, and if they just started talking more to each other, they'd find what they are looking for...
Posted by Sithiee on Mar. 30 2001,19:26
aahhh, i hate it when people try to have conversations with me when im buying stuff. im there to buy something, not to have a conversation, if i wanted to have a fucking conversation i would walk up and start one.
Posted by LiNeY on Mar. 30 2001,19:38
Well, that was just an example, I mean of course not everyone wants to talk while shopping. But that's just one of the many occasions when people could talk to each other and they don't. Why don't they? We've become an anonymous society, and we complain about it, but we don't even try to change it.
However, I'll get too deep into sociology here and I guess that this is not exactly what the topic is about...
Posted by Guest on Mar. 30 2001,21:38
i like being in an anonymous society that way i dont have to deal with stupid fucks all the time
Posted by Guest on Mar. 30 2001,21:39
Hey that's not very nice at all! If you stopped to talk to people I think you would find out that you are missing out! Don't be such a meanie!
Posted by Rhydant on Mar. 31 2001,00:31
quote:
Originally posted by c47kn1gh7:
i like being in an anonymous society that way i dont have to deal with stupid fucks all the time
arent you being a little contradictory? you ARE a stupid fuck------------------
...when you look long into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Posted by Guest on Mar. 31 2001,00:48
stupid fucks other then myself then
Posted by LiNeY on Mar. 31 2001,09:20
quote:
Originally posted by c47kn1gh7:
i like being in an anonymous society that way i dont have to deal with stupid fucks all the time
Yeah, perfectly right - you don't have to deal with all the stupid asses out there. But what about all the nice people you're missing out on?
Posted by ic0n0 on Mar. 31 2001,13:52
I’ve been reading this topic for a few days and have come to the concussion that everyone needs to chill out about this, if we lived in a more open and honest society finding a mate would be easy, but we live in a very repressed one. (The States and Canada) Most young people aren’t interested in a long-term relationship, although many people in this forum may be; I think we are the extreme minority. People I know are pretty shallow (including myself) we don’t see it in ourselves generally. The issue about our personal standards shows this, it’s idealism (Shallow) vs. realism. I think trying to find an ideal mate is a shallow pursuit because you could give up a lifetime of happy times with someone just because they don’t fit your self-image of whom you should be with. Nice Gandhi quote
Bozeman.
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